Does your Family have that one person..

 Hello everyone, how are you all?

Welcome to December .

Very chilly and snowy here today and starting to get foggy again. Thankfully the snow is melting a little and some very immature person has been throwing snowballs at the dining room window , ok yes it was me😁. You got to have some fun.

So in our house Christmas is not for a few days its a whole month of Christmas. Very slowly the decorations start to appear and my little bits and bobs get dusted off and it slowly takes over the house. We don't put up the rest until 12 days before Christmas day and that is our thing we always have and always will do it this way. I love to see other peoples decorations and get a little giddy looking at them.

I have a new Christmas tablecloth and Advent Candle, plus i got out the placemats and coasters and did it all while hubby was at work so when he came home it was Surprise!!. Christmas has started.

Our little family absolutely love this time of year and my older girls already have their trees up and they all look gorgeous, but  there is always one,  we have a Christmas Hater in the family. 

Every year no matter what we all get told that this person hates Christmas, its a waste of time and they are not putting up decorations for 2 days. Wishing the month away and waiting for January. Every year i am not even surprised anymore by this person and i truly wish i had the nerve to not send a card or gift to this person seeing as they hate it so much...but that would be petty right? And i am not a petty person😇. However i do get tired of this rhetoric every year..not sure they mean it or are just saying it to be the center of attention. They actually start this in October time. But what ever their reason i do not need to hear it year after year after year..we get it so stop rolling your eyes and snorting when its mentioned , just because you don't like it doesn't mean we cannot enjoy it. They seem to enjoy the gifts they receive so what is going on in there head?

Just curious if anyone else has this one person.

Take care all

Love FTM🌺

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  1. I do, it's my husband, this year he wants me to put a tree in the window so the other residents don't realise what a grinch he is.

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  2. That is me in my family. Happy for other people to do as they please, but absolutely hate the forced jollity and expectation that I'll "enjoy it really". I'd happily not talk about and leave people to it, if others would do the same and respect my wishes too. Everyone I know is fully aware that if they send a card it will be put into a drawer until the new year when I'll chuck it in the recycling.

    The Chap likes a tree so sometimes we have one, sometimes we don't.

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    1. Hi, thats absolutely fine. You do you. Everyone can do as they please as long as they are happy that's all that matters
      love
      FTM

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  3. I don't think so. My son doesn't really 'do' Christmas but I don't think he actively dislikes it. xx

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    1. Hi..i understand its not for everyone long.
      Love
      FTM

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  4. I have to confess I'm the Christmas hater but I just put up with it in silence! Luckily we always spend Christmas with my inlaws interstate and my SIL does enough Christmasing for evetybody.

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    1. Hi. O bless you for being silent. I like that "Christmasing" .
      Have a good journey
      Love FTM

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  5. Pretty sure we all have one. I ignore them.

    God bless.

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    1. Hi, o i wish i totally could ignore them but its literally brought up every conversation.now a family joke on how long before its mentioned.
      Love
      FTM

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  6. I think people who "love" Christmas tend not to realize how overbearing they can be with it. Unfortunately so many aspects of how it's celebrated now are intrusive and hard to get away from. I'd ask people like you to just back off a little bit--it would be very considerate to realize not everyone feels the same as you. Maybe refrain from sending the card as it's a bit passive aggressive of you if you know how they feel about it and do it anyway. I'm not trying to be trolly; just making an attempt to get you to see it from outside your own perspective.

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    1. Hi ..i can assure you that i do not push or intrude my agenda for Christmas on anyone..i understand that it is not for everyone and i can also assure you that if i know the person is not a christmas lover then no cards or gifts are sent. I totally get it as i was brought up by someone who absolutely despised anything to do with christmas and shoved it down our throats day in day out for years so i do understand that people have their own ways and i am not trying to change anyone to my way.
      take care
      FTM

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